Truly.
The thing is, why the hell is it so hard for people to be happy? It's just so god damn hard, thing is it isn't. This is coming from someone who has depression. If I can get past that and not drag everyone down with me, when I'm having a bad day why is it so difficult for everyone else? Because people like to complain. They like to whine, they like to cry, they like having people pity them. This goes past the point of being pathetic.
I am so sick and tired of hanging out with people who complain about EVERYTHING who let the stupidest shit instantly put them in a bad mood. Of people who get mad at you so fast, and give you that look, you know the one I'm talking about, where their eyes burn holes in your skin, because what you just did was so horrific it couldn't possibly be forgotten. For those people who think they are so fucking special and/or use any excuse in the book to put themselves in a bad mood. For example, I work with a girl who is around my age, she walked past a friend and I as we were having a conversation and just stopped and gave us both a look of disgust. She then questioned me if we were just talking about her, when I informed her we were not she rolled her eyes and walked away. WHAT!? I then looked to my friend with a face, I'm sure, of utter confusion. My friend then suggested perhaps she was having a bad day. BULL SHIT! we need to stop making excuses for people who have sticks up their ass, we didn't shove it up there. Forgiving people for treating others below them, and carrying themselves levels higher than anyone else, is a main reason why people continue to act this way! We're giving them a free pass to do so!
I know it's scary to tell these people off, because they are clearly psychotic on different levels, but it's time to take control of your life! And YES, telling these crazies that they're being crazy, does have a crucial part in leading yourself to a happier life. The sooner you realize these people with their "I'm god" attitude, are bringing down your mood day after day, the sooner you can tell them off, and continue on with your day! Which if you're being honest with yourself probably started pretty good. Think about it, when you wake, you usually have a positive outlook, and this is gonna be a great day attitude!
(unless you have a major test, or your boyfriend just broke up with you, in which case, good luck, you'll do great, and even if you fail, you're still awesome! and as for your ex. that does suck, but take a few moments to write down all the things about them you hated but pretended didn't bother you, throw some things and go out get drunk and make out with the hottest stranger you see! Guaranteed to put you in a better mood!)
But then, you leave your room and your mother starts complaining about how dirty the house is and how you do nothing to help, or you notice 27 texts on your phone from your friend complaining about her boyfriend who's cheating on her, but prom's in a week, so instead of dumping him, she'll deal and just annoy the shit out of you by sharing all the details, or your husband drank the last of the liquor you're going to need to get you threw this mornings meeting.
So you see it's not life that sucks, it's the people that occupy it!
This is good enough reason as any to take regular vacations away from everyone for months on end! or you know...remove all the losers and surround yourself with people that are a constant good time and make you forget everything else, except for the fact that life should be fun!!!
do yourself a favor & STOP BEING BORING PEOPLE!
The thing is, why the hell is it so hard for people to be happy? It's just so god damn hard, thing is it isn't. This is coming from someone who has depression. If I can get past that and not drag everyone down with me, when I'm having a bad day why is it so difficult for everyone else? Because people like to complain. They like to whine, they like to cry, they like having people pity them. This goes past the point of being pathetic.
I am so sick and tired of hanging out with people who complain about EVERYTHING who let the stupidest shit instantly put them in a bad mood. Of people who get mad at you so fast, and give you that look, you know the one I'm talking about, where their eyes burn holes in your skin, because what you just did was so horrific it couldn't possibly be forgotten. For those people who think they are so fucking special and/or use any excuse in the book to put themselves in a bad mood. For example, I work with a girl who is around my age, she walked past a friend and I as we were having a conversation and just stopped and gave us both a look of disgust. She then questioned me if we were just talking about her, when I informed her we were not she rolled her eyes and walked away. WHAT!? I then looked to my friend with a face, I'm sure, of utter confusion. My friend then suggested perhaps she was having a bad day. BULL SHIT! we need to stop making excuses for people who have sticks up their ass, we didn't shove it up there. Forgiving people for treating others below them, and carrying themselves levels higher than anyone else, is a main reason why people continue to act this way! We're giving them a free pass to do so!
I know it's scary to tell these people off, because they are clearly psychotic on different levels, but it's time to take control of your life! And YES, telling these crazies that they're being crazy, does have a crucial part in leading yourself to a happier life. The sooner you realize these people with their "I'm god" attitude, are bringing down your mood day after day, the sooner you can tell them off, and continue on with your day! Which if you're being honest with yourself probably started pretty good. Think about it, when you wake, you usually have a positive outlook, and this is gonna be a great day attitude!
(unless you have a major test, or your boyfriend just broke up with you, in which case, good luck, you'll do great, and even if you fail, you're still awesome! and as for your ex. that does suck, but take a few moments to write down all the things about them you hated but pretended didn't bother you, throw some things and go out get drunk and make out with the hottest stranger you see! Guaranteed to put you in a better mood!)
But then, you leave your room and your mother starts complaining about how dirty the house is and how you do nothing to help, or you notice 27 texts on your phone from your friend complaining about her boyfriend who's cheating on her, but prom's in a week, so instead of dumping him, she'll deal and just annoy the shit out of you by sharing all the details, or your husband drank the last of the liquor you're going to need to get you threw this mornings meeting.
So you see it's not life that sucks, it's the people that occupy it!
This is good enough reason as any to take regular vacations away from everyone for months on end! or you know...remove all the losers and surround yourself with people that are a constant good time and make you forget everything else, except for the fact that life should be fun!!!
do yourself a favor & STOP BEING BORING PEOPLE!
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